Don't Forget to Remember...

I just returned from a much-anticipated and much-needed vacation to Florida with my family.  In these economic times we had a great deal of guilt about being able to give our children this wonderful experience.  We continually reminded them that so many people are losing jobs (my own husband was up for an 8,000 employee layoff at his company and was blessed enough to be one that stayed employed).  But I knew this trip was important for many reasons.  Working two jobs this year, I feel my family has often received the shorter end of the stick.  We had saved for this trip and we also have family in Tampa--a cousin who was due with her first baby (and has now had her!).  We really wanted the kids to realize what a gift this trip was.  "Don't forget, we are so very lucky to have this opportunity", I found myself saying over and over.  We had planned for some typical Disney adventures and lots of down time.  I was proud.  I brought no work with me and managed to finish two mindless pleasure books while sitting by the pool.  The kids were equally as happy just frolicking in the pool and the sun for most of the day as they were roaming Magic Kingdom.  My son was glued to my side most of the week--making up for lost time I thought.  "Don't forget to remember how important balance is for your life"--I found that to be my mantra all week.  The school was not falling apart without me.  And, just as we all know, vacations are important to increasing our own motivation and energy for our jobs (and life!). 

A funny moment to share:  As we are sitting at the entrance to Main Street at Magic Kingdom I hear "Mrs Zakula?"  I know that this name reference can mean only one thing...a student of mine has found me at the most magical place on earth.  Sure enough!  A wonderful family happened to be there vacationing as well.  What are the chances?  They got to meet my family and watch my Andrew retire the flag at Main Street with some of the cast of Disney. THAT was a great memory for sure! 

Don't forget to remember the parts of your life that you put to the side.  Personal interests, hobbies, vacations, pleasure books, prayer, family time...without them we simply aren't whole.